Turns on: It excites me that you confess to me your hottest desires in private, that you take control of the situation and make me feel that I am yours, I love people who know what they want and how they want it.. Turns off: that you demand things from me without giving advice.
Turns on: It turns me on when they grab me and dominate me. Turns off: that you be disrespectful
do not demand without giving
do not ask for shows not allowed.