Turns on: I am excited by thoughtful men who know what to do to get a woman's attention. Turns off: stingy men who ask without giving anything in return turn me off.
Turns on: I get the morbidity, tell me what you want to do to me and describe what I will do to you.
I am excited to touch me for you while you give me instructions. Turns off: the rude and poorly educated persons.