Turns on: It turns me on when they touch my whole body and put me in many different positions. It turns me on a lot when you speak hatefully to me and tell me how wet I am while you gently penetrate me and put your fingers in my vagina, then you pass them through your mouth and come back and It penetrates me softly and faster and faster more and more. Turns off: It turns me off when we only use one position and they don't talk to me about hot things.