Turns on: I love a guy who knows how to be gentle, because I'm very physical in general.. I like it when he flirts with me so it feels sexy and romantic, but I also want him to be sweet and take care of me sometimes too. I really love honesty. Like, just be real to me. Tell me honestly how you feel and what you think about things.. Turns off: I hate it when someone is selfish and never listens to me too. I like a guy who knows how to be selfless.I don't like it when a guy is too clingy and tries to control me. I like my independence.I also don't like guys who are rude and overly aggressive. I want a guy to protect me, you know? So it can make me feel a bit scared sometimes..