Turns on: In a man, it is important for me that he has his own hobby. That he is passionate about his favorite thing. That he is charismatic and flexible, so that he can share my hobbies. In terms of sex, I like the classics, but I like to diversify these classics. Experiments - yes!. Turns off: I don't like liars and narcissists who only think about themselves. I can't stand it. I can't say that I don't like anything sexually, but there is a negative connotation towards anal sex. Although I'm sure that I don't like it very much, because I've never had it properly..